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It’s Summer Time: Do You Know What Your Children Are Reading?


It’s not one of those urgent problems that insist on being solved immediately. And there’s not a lot of information to help us know what to do. And we’re not sure what criteria to use to make a decision. And we don’t even know what the ideal stance should be!

It’s children and books – or, more specifically, secular books. What can we, what should we, allow our children to read? It’s one of the predicaments of summer, when children have more time to read – although some children are insatiable all year round.

By now, the dilemma plagues a second generation


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We Are Geirim in a Strange Land: Navigating the Internet


Over the course of the past 15 years, the internet has slowly insinuated itself into our lives in a way that is truly transformational. While not all of us have jumped on that bandwagon, it is safe to assume that most of us have – if not in our homes, certainly at our colleges and places of employment. We use it for email, to pay our bills, to catch up on the news, and to help our kids do research for school projects. Googling has become a household word. These are some of the positives of this amazing new medium


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Starting the Year Off Right – A Book Review


It’s the annual post-Sukkos ritual. We dismantle our sukkahs, put away the machzorim and decorations, and try somehow to salvage our precious esrogim – whether by boiling them to make esrog jelly, turning them into pincushions stuck with fresh cloves for havdala, or cutting them up to make esrog liqueur (I know, I’ve tried them all). And then, the Yamim Nora’im are truly over and we go back to “business as usual.”

Too often, the tremendous spiritual highs that we reached over Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur start to quickly wane and dissipate, as we re-immerse ourselves into the day-to-day challenge


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Growing Up in the Shadows: When Childhood is Tested


Childhood can be rough. Even the most uneventful childhood is fraught with an assortment of worries and fears; some are benign and even seem silly – consider the child who pales at the sound of a noisy blender or is afraid to sleep without his blankie – while others are based on reality, such as dealing with the illness of a beloved relative. But a child that experiences a trauma or some other hardship will face a set of challenges that will transform him forever. Such a child will not remain a child for long.

A pair of books has recently


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My Pirsum Nissah: A Play in Five Acts December 1, 2011


On Chanuka, we contemplate the nature of miracles. We see how, if Hashem so desires, the weak can prevail against all odds. The days of Chanuka are considered yemei ratzon, a time of Divine favor. It is also a time for exchanging gifts. The best gifts are usually surprises, and good ones take a lot of planning.

Well, 21 years ago, I was the astonished recipient of a series of incredible Chanuka gifts, involving a great deal of advance planning by the Ribono Shel Olam and a good bit of miraculous intervention on His part. This is my pirsum nissah.

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Live and Let Live


Following the recitation of the Amidah, Berl Izenkopp (not his real name), having completed the Amidah in “record time,” so to speak, took three steps backwards, as mandated, and sat down. After Shacharis, Berl was approached by a fellow congregant, Yossel Papovitch (not his real name). Yossel’s objective was to give “muser” to Berl. And what is muser? you may ask. Is it a type of cheese, or what? Not exactly… Muser refers to admonishing another Yiddle for violating a law that is in the Torah. It is a type of warning. Thus, if a Yiddle sees another Yiddle violating


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