When the editor of the Where What When asked me to write an article commemorating Reuven Fishman’s 40th yahrzeit, on 26 Iyar, 5738, I was extremely busy with various work-related projects and trainings, in addition to my normal schedule. Nevertheless, I threw caution to the winds and immediately agreed to do it as a true labor of love because of the strong kesher (connection) our family and so many others shared with Reuven. Not only was he beloved Above and below but also, since he was killed as a bachur leaving no descendants, the memories kept alive in the hearts of his many yedidim (friends) have to serve in lieu of biological offspring. With the passage of time, our memories haven’t dulled, but they have inevitably receded from the forefront of our consciousness.

Reuven was one of six passengers killed in the terrorist bus bombing of June 2, 1978, when an Egged bus exploded in Bayit Vegan near the end of its route. To understand Reuven’s life and how he came to be in Yerushalayim that fateful day, I will first present a brief biographical sketch.