Modern Day Etiquette
I once read a story about a man who got an invitation and tickets to fly to Switzerland for a wedding. He did know the person but took the opportunity for a vacation. When he got to the wedding, he did not recognize the chassan and asked him who he was and how they knew each other. The chassan answered, “When I was in yeshiva, I was feeling very lonely and was planning to leave the next day. When we were standing in line waiting for lunch, you were behind me. You saw that my collar was not straight, and you reached over and straightened it for me. That small gesture made me realize that I was not alone. I stayed in yeshiva and began to enjoy being there. I owe you my life, and so I invited you to my wedding.”