As a new grandmother, several years ago, I was excited to greet each grandchild and to celebrate their milestones as they grew. My paternal grandparents were quite elderly when I was a child, and I did not get to know them well. However, I did get to know my maternal grandmother. She taught me to knit and to embroider. She was an excellent cook, and I have fond memories of watching her make waffle cookies with an iron over the open flame on her stove. Later, I was able to ask her questions about her life as an immigrant in America. It was a connection that I made between her and the generations before her. So I looked forward to also making a connection with my grandchildren.

The great part about being a grandparent is you do not have to worry about the hard parts, like discipline or outcomes. It is all fun. If there is a temper tantrum, you just take them back home. It is so satisfying to get to know your grandchildren individually. Each grandchild is unique and special. Dedicating time to spend with each one alone can be very rewarding. I have recently returned from a trip to Costa Rica with my twin granddaughters, the youngest of my nine grandchildren. I have had many other fulfilling experiences with all my grandchildren. Aside from the fun and adventure, spending time together forges a relationship that is wonderful and enriching for both.