Are you an unmarried Jew and feel like you have been passed over by the Jewish world? Do you feel that your fellow Jews as well as our Father in Heaven have forsaken you? Or perhaps you have a close friend or relative who finds him or herself in such a situation.

To whom can we turn, and what are we to do to free ourselves from despair when trying to find our zivug or any other seemingly hopeless task in life? Dealing with such situations can be very draining emotionally but can also be a source of great satisfaction upon the realization that no situation need be as hopeless as it initially appears. We have a loving Father in Heaven and great rabbis steeped in Torah who can offer us enormous rays of light to make our way through our darkness.