Twenty-five years ago I had an amazing Noahide speak to my community in Cape Town, South Africa. His name was J. David Davis. It was 1996, and he had published his first book, Finding the G-d of Noah.

Many Jews have never heard of Noahides. Those who have often think of them as non-Jews who observe the rule of law, accept the core of the Ten Commandments, and don’t eat from a live animal. In fact, there are Noahides who are Torah-observant, G-d-fearing non-Jews who reject all religious beliefs other than the laws of Noah as defined by the Torah. One of the modern leaders of these individuals was J. David Davis of Athens, Tennessee.

Recently, a small business owner contacted me for advice. He said, “I understand that you are an industrial psychologist and you work in the nonprofit and for-profit sectors.” I asked him how I might be of assistance. The gentleman went on to describe the numerous problems he has with his current employees. I asked him about his former employees, and he said that they were mostly unmotivated, ungrateful people who used him and then either quit or he had to fire them. I asked what prompted him to call me. He said, “I want you to help me fix the problem. I need you

I remember way back when I was in second grade (trust me, it was way back!), and I came home one day rather upset. My dad was sitting in his favorite chair concentrating on his newspaper. He saw me standing there and said, “Do you need something?”

I said, “Yes, a kid in my class beat me up today!”

My dad looked at me and said, “Well, as I see it, you’ve got two choices: Learn to fight or learn to run.”

Yep! That was the sum and total of our conversation. Can anyone imagine such a conversation taking place today? These days, many parents reflexively intervene to defend their kids “rights” and demand answers from teachers, school administrators, and sometimes lawyers to look after their “fragile” kids – that is, their kids whom they themselves have made fragile.