Praising our Children
Imagine a young boy named Avraham struggling with his math homework. Each night, his parents see him growing increasingly frustrated, often ending his study sessions in anger or tears. One evening, his mother, exasperated herself, tries a different approach. Instead of saying, “Don’t worry, you’re smart,” she praises his effort: “Avraham, I noticed how hard you tried to solve those problems tonight. Your persistence is impressive.” Over time, Avraham’s attitude towards math begins to shift. He starts approaching his homework with more determination, slowly realizing that his effort is making a difference.