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“On the other hand, she can be a girl those people who are not
with very average looks, but to her shayich – but, as I always say,
bashert she is the most beautiful how do you know what the
person in the world. Her Ribono Shel Olam has in store
”personality, her tznius, her charm, and for you? When looks are a major
her middos outshine everything and issue, I always suspect that the
declare that she is truly beautiful. person is getting married for
what others will say. (“Oy, did he
get a catch...!”) If you get married
for what you are looking for,
looks become a small part of the
total package. We have all had

the experience of seeing a suc-

“Besides, pictures do not cessful shidduch and not being
mean anything in the era of able to figure out what they saw
Photoshop, because they are in each other. What the
”often “touched up” by the observers are missing is that
photographers. these two people knew what they
needed and found it in the other
person, while those on the out-
side only look superficially.

I hope I have given you a dif-
ferent perspective, and I suggest
you continue to look for your

There have been many kol korehs on As for your assertion about the zivug – without a picture – and the

that issue as well. Few pay attention, practicality of exchanging pictures, Ribono Shel Olam will reward you

though, and just do what they want you are right and you are wrong. with the right person at the right

to do. True, pictures help you eliminate time. I wish you much hatzlacha.◆

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