I must admit that when Purim falls on erev Shabbos and erev Pesach falls on Shabbos, it can be challenging. But now that Pesach is packed away and the last load of laundry is in the washer, there’s no time to waste. It’s time to start planning for another challenging yet eagerly anticipated event: Nismach’s fourth annual Labor Day Weekend Shabbaton, planned for Friday through Sunday, August 29 to August 31.
The Shabbaton attendees are primarily members of Nismach Maryland, the local friendship and activities group for Jewish almanos (widows) formed in 2016 by Stephanie Savir-Perlman of Silver Spring. They have been joined by other almanos from as far away as Boca Raton, Brooklyn, Chicago, Cleveland, Detroit, Lakewood, Monsey, New Haven, and Passaic.
Both of us having personally experienced widowhood, my husband, Michael Steinberg, and I – aided by a small army of our family members, friends, and neighbors – particularly look forward to hosting yet another beautiful, bekavodik, and uplifting Shabbos for approximately 60 women.
As you read this, you might think that you’ve never heard of anything sadder than a Shabbaton for widows, but nothing could be further from the truth. As the organization’s name implies, Nismach is a group that encourages happiness. It is patterned after the international group, Samchainu, which gives support to 2,700-plus widows throughout the world. Our activities are uplifting and fun with the intention of reminding the participants that, even though our husband has died, we all need to continue seeking happiness and enjoy life.